My Name is of No Consequence

Joined

• started 31 topics
• posted 872 times   see topics posted on
• send a message

Posts by My Name is of No Consequence

• 
  25

  Just a really messed up situation

  by My Name is of No Consequence in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  a quick summary of my situation: i have known ttatt since at least 2010. my wife and teenage son are still in.

  i only mention that because it is relevant in this situation.

  you can see some of my previous posts for additional details.

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
• 

  My Name is of No Consequence

  I have a relationship with my son. That is one of the few good things that has come out of this marriage. I love him; he is my only child, stepchild or otherwise. It could be so much more if she was just reasonable.
  
• 
  25

  Just a really messed up situation

  by My Name is of No Consequence in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  a quick summary of my situation: i have known ttatt since at least 2010. my wife and teenage son are still in.

  i only mention that because it is relevant in this situation.

  you can see some of my previous posts for additional details.

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
• 

  My Name is of No Consequence

  You better believe that I am paying for everything. She has a good job. She says that there is more to being a father and husband. I agree, but I don't get any credit. If I would become "spiritual" again, most of this goes away. That's not gonna happen.
  
• 
  25

  Just a really messed up situation

  by My Name is of No Consequence in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  a quick summary of my situation: i have known ttatt since at least 2010. my wife and teenage son are still in.

  i only mention that because it is relevant in this situation.

  you can see some of my previous posts for additional details.

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
• 

  My Name is of No Consequence

  Every time I raise an objection or disagree with how she goes about raising him, it is usually disregarded. She is raising him as if he doesn’t have a father. She has threatened to record me the next time I get upset and put me on YouTube. You can’t make this stuff up.
• 
  25

  Just a really messed up situation

  by My Name is of No Consequence in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  a quick summary of my situation: i have known ttatt since at least 2010. my wife and teenage son are still in.

  i only mention that because it is relevant in this situation.

  you can see some of my previous posts for additional details.

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
• 

  My Name is of No Consequence

  A quick summary of my situation: I have known TTATT since at least 2010. My wife and teenage son are still in. (He is my step-son. I only mention that because it is relevant in this situation. You can see some of my previous posts for additional details.) Things have not been going well at home. My wife and I have not slept in the same room for at least 6 months. We can’t have a conversation without getting into an argument, so typically we don’t talk.

  My son is unbaptized, but is working toward baptism. However, he has “worldly” associates and a possible girlfriend. I told him that I want to talk to him in private when his mother is not around. I just want to see where he is with everything. His mother will not let me talk to him in private for fear that I will turn him to apostasy (yeah, I know). Yet she will sit in her car with him and talk to him so I can’t hear their conversation.

  I just want to tell my son that you can’t work towards baptism and have friends who are not in the org. It seems that no one else is telling him this. Since I am a step-father, I have no parental rights and she uses that to her advantage. The elders know this, but they don’t seem to care. Let me be perfectly clear: I don’t want him to get baptized at all. But my fear is that he will get baptized and then get reproved or worse because of his friends. They’re not bad kids at all, but they’re “unbelievers”.

  It is just a really messed up situation. My wife is not allowing me to talk to my son. I have no legal standing and very few people to talk to about it.

  Any suggestions?
  
• 
  19

  1930s Vertical Phonograph for Bethelites and Pioneers- of passing interest.

  by Balaamsass2 in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  just thought this might be of passing interest to a few members.

  we were unpacking some estate items from a 1930s bethelite and were confounded by his vertical phonograph.

  lots of old rutherford books, and some trashed rutherford records, but the phonograph was something to behold.

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
• 

  My Name is of No Consequence

  I seen one of those Rutherford era phonographs sell for several hundred dollars online. That dude is still getting over on people!
  
• 
  19

  Yet another RBC liquidation

  by Darkknight757 in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i've posted these before but this one looks more "official".. .

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
• 

  My Name is of No Consequence

  Money, money, money.
  
• 
  45

  JWs in denial, so sad

  by Simon in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  i had a couple of jw sisters call at my door today.. they started with the bizarre "can we read you a scripture" and read about "death being no more" and asked what i thought of that.. i said it sounded like a mix of disney and dumb.. they then launched into how god was going to put an end to death and wasn't that wonderful?.

  i said it would have been more wonderful if he'd not created death in the first place.. they thought man created death by disobeying so i questioned why god couldn't have just forgiven them.

  apparently "because he loves us" is supposed to be a satisfactory answer to why he kills us.. i asked how loving it was to kill hundreds of thousands of children in tsunami's, disease and so on.. at this point, they gave up on the 'god is love' and switched to the bible being true no matter what because it was an old book and moses had written the first chapter (says the book).. when i suggested it really wasn't that old and that most of the bible myths were copies of older stories from before it was written they questioned if i studied the bible and theology.. then i told them i was brought up as a jw so knew it was all crap.. now it was game on, they immediately switched to play defence questioning why i'd left (and i think they'd already taken a step back away from "the evil" obviously emanating from me).. not much time to say much before they cut and run so i told them i'd left because i found out it was all based on lies and that the watchtower was corrupt and covered up things like child abuse.. oh no, you're thinking of the catholics one of them said (some disdain in how she said "catholics" as though "we're so much better than them").. "well, i challenge you to do a search for the australian royal commission and you'll see the testimony the watchtower leaders gave and the damning evidence that they covered up abuse and reported none of it to the police.".

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
• 

  My Name is of No Consequence

  I said it sounded like a mix of Disney and dumb.

  Haha! I have to use that line.
• 
  51

  What were you never going to do in "This system" But did it?

  by karter in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  finish school.. finish my apprenticeship (why are you doing that brother karter you will never finish it in this system).. buy a house.. pay the house off.. karter..

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
• 

  My Name is of No Consequence

  Turn 34.
• 
  7

  Jehovah’s Witnesses Sell Their Longest-Held Property in Historic Brooklyn Heights (124 Columbia Heights)

  by Da.Furious in

  1. watchtower
  2. scandals

  https://www.jw.org/en/news/releases/by-region/united-states/witnesses-sell-property-124-columbia-heights/.

  interesting aspect on this is that no where in the article there is a mention for how much it was sold.. on brooklyn daily eagle, it states that the building was sold for $105million to florida panthers (hockey team) owner.. http://www.brooklyneagle.com/articles/2016/5/2/jehovahs-witnesses-sell-124-columbia-heights-florida-panthers-owner-vincent-viola.

  da furious.

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
• 

  My Name is of No Consequence

  It's really amazing when you pause, take a step back and look at the big picture. For me, prior to 2010, the governing body and the org could do no wrong. I always had subdued doubts about certain things, but for the most part, I ignored them.

  It really is all about the money, isn't it?
• 
  7

  Jehovah’s Witnesses Sell Their Longest-Held Property in Historic Brooklyn Heights (124 Columbia Heights)

  by Da.Furious in

  1. watchtower
  2. scandals

  https://www.jw.org/en/news/releases/by-region/united-states/witnesses-sell-property-124-columbia-heights/.

  interesting aspect on this is that no where in the article there is a mention for how much it was sold.. on brooklyn daily eagle, it states that the building was sold for $105million to florida panthers (hockey team) owner.. http://www.brooklyneagle.com/articles/2016/5/2/jehovahs-witnesses-sell-124-columbia-heights-florida-panthers-owner-vincent-viola.

  da furious.

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
• 

  My Name is of No Consequence

  If the org isn't overly concerned about money, then why wasn't the property donated?